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In the last few years, self-care has become a buzzword to the point where its meaning has all but faded to triviality. In truth, taking good care of your well-being is a complex, ever-changing, and sometimes messy process that changes as we do. 

Self-care on social media is represented as treating yourself to a luxurious trip, sipping margaritas somewhere, or drawing a bath, all of which are super fun and can be helpful. However, at its core, self-care is a deeply personal process that entails creating good habits, listening to yourself, and facing difficult emotions and situations head-on. So, let’s talk about some essential practices that will allow you to have a balanced lifestyle day in and day out.

How to create a self-care routine?

Everyone has a different idea of what self-care is, so it’s ultimately up to you to discover what works for you. Taking care of your well-being is a holistic experience, meaning you need to work on your physical health, emotional regulation, mental well-being, and spiritual growth. 

When you prioritize self-care, you can improve just about every aspect of your life, and it all starts with small, but powerful practices. Here are some of them to inspire you!

Start with Physical Health Self-Care

Your body is a mirror of everything that’s going on inside you, and at the same time, your physical state can send signals to your inner world and change it over time. This is why taking care of your physical health is crucial!

Let’s start with getting enough sleep, as that’s one of the things we’re quick to skip when life gets stressful. Still, quality sleep is essential for you to function normally throughout the day. Prioritize having at least 7-8 hours of sleep every night – that will help with every other self-care step.

Having a balanced diet is a huge part of the puzzle. Focusing on foods rich in protein, fiber, and simple carbs will keep you full longer and give your body more energy. Skip all the fad diets and social media influences that push you towards extreme eating habits and opt for foods that nourish and make you feel good in your skin. 

Pair a balanced diet with regular exercise and plenty of sleep, and you’ve got a physical wellness trifecta. Find physical activities that you enjoy, be it running, swimming, yoga, etc. and you’ll get a steady release of endorphins that will make it easier to reduce stress and improve your mood.

Nurturing Your Mental Well-Being

Next, let’s look at what it takes to nurture your mental well-being, as it’s just as important as your physical health. Our metabolisms are soaked in the stress hormone cortisol on one side, keeping us in the fight or flight mode, and on the other side, we’re constantly looking for the next dopamine hit, be it through social media or any other distraction.

If you’re looking for ways to declutter your mind, consider including these activities into your routine:

• Embrace reflective writing through journaling. The wonder of journaling is that there’s something deeply cathartic in spilling your thoughts and emotions on an empty piece of paper. Whether you like to use premium hardcover notebooks for writing or notes on your phone, jotting down everything that happens to you is a great tool for self-discovery and emotional release.

• Finding ways to be mindful and present. This is easier said than done in today’s hectic world, but having a clear and calm mind is a vital step in your self-care routine. Whether you choose breathing exercises, meditation, or another mindfulness technique, prioritize spending time with yourself and see how it changes how you see the world.
  
  

• Setting boundaries is healing. Setting boundaries that serve you well is an art form and one you should invest your time in. Knowing how to establish and enforce boundaries will allow you to stay away from people and situations that drain your energy, and by default, your stress levels will drop significantly.

Taking Care of Your Emotional Needs

Even though emotional regulation should be a school subject, more often than not, we opt for suppression of emotions rather than feeling and regulating them. However, your emotions shape how you experience your life and the world, so giving them room and observing them should be non-negotiable.

Emotional self-care can take different forms, and having an emotional support net made of people who love you and uplift you is a wonderful way to feel safe and cherished. This will also allow you to seek support when you need it instead of struggling in silence. You can also turn to a therapist or counselor for professional help for that extra guidance.

Prioritize your creativity because it will help you express your emotions in a way that’s uniquely yours, be it writing, painting, or playing an instrument. And when you combine all these activities, you’ll be able to identify and fulfill your emotional needs as they come.

Spiritual Self-Care as a Compass

The best thing about spirituality is that it’s as deeply personal, and it encompasses all other forms of well-being we mentioned. This has little to do with religion, but rather with practices that will give you a sense of purpose and inner peace and be your compass in life. 

To prioritize your spiritual well-being, spend time in nature to stay grounded and experience peace within and without. 

Practicing gratitude for even the smallest things in your life is an incredible way to shift your perspective and have more joy in everything you do. The same can be said when you spend time helping others and volunteering or pursuing hobbies that make you feel fulfilled and giddy.

Conclusion

Prioritizing self-care isn’t easy, but it’s necessary to have a good quality of life measured in moments of clarity and love rather than cute Instagram pics. When you have a holistic approach to your well-being and dedicate time and energy to your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual wellness, your perspective changes for the better dramatically, and that’s when the most beautiful things happen.